So I was trying to figure out how I would like to set up my daily writings. First off Ill post them to a page of “Daily” thoughts. I put daily in parentheses because I know myself and we will all see how reliable on the daily I am. Next I figured I’d create my second post of the start of the blog with my first thought of the day haha.
I was having a great day today with my little cousin her boyfriend and my boyfriend. My little cousin is like a daughter/best friend/sister to me as confusing as that may seem it make sense to us. She has been around me my whole life and I hers. We grew up in the same house as I did and therefore picked up on the same environmental developments as I did. Such as how we have very commanding and strong women in our households. Well, one of the (more negative in my mind) traits she picks up (same as me) is that she doesn’t want to burden anyone with her problems. Now the problems in question aren’t my issue, its more the fact we all think holding it into ourselves is less harsh on ourselves and others we care about because the hard things haven’t been said. As if not speaking about them won’t hurt you. As if not saying them won’t come out in other ways, such as your actions or your eyes, or face. We all show our emotions it’s just a matter of time before we release them. Usually releasing them results in an explosion of emotions in some much more negative way. So the moral I’m trying to get across is that its tough out there for all of us (and that doesn’t belittle anyones experiences) but what that should show us is that we aren’t alone to suffer alone. We are linked and connected and we all should do a good open share every once in a while with our most trusted loved ones. We all deserve that type of peace and no-one should go feeling alone in their personal word creating self boundaries that are so extreme they hold everyone they even care about out. We are social creatures and if we took a moment to tap more into our humanity maybe we could all see it easier that kindness goes a long way and being an open ear for someone now may help you to have the same down the road of life in the person you help out.
All in all I just believe we should all start feeling like its okay to express our pains to our loved ones without fear of “burdening” them. Because thats not what they are doing, they are helping create an understanding more deep than others could imagine and that bond can help one another out.
Have a great night guys, I’m done ranting now! Haha leave your comments below i really would love to hear your thoughts on m y thought 🙂